March 9, 2006

  • Tagged!!


    I've been tagged by InstantVintage19.

    I'm supposed to list 10 traits that my ideal mate would have, then tag some other people.

    So here they are in no particular order for any man/woman I may end up with.

    1. Appearance - Must be physically fit and enjoy physical activity.
    2. Job Situation - Must have one!! Must be on a career path headed upwards. No dead ends thanks!!
    3. Spirituality - Don't try to convert me, but at least be able to say why you believe in what you do. I love hearing about others beliefs even if I don't always agree.
    4. Open Minded - I love trying new things all the time and it would be great if my potential mate would love to try them with me.
    5. Extra Curricular's - If you don't smoke weed fine, but can't have a problem with me doing it.
    6. Children - Must love 'em and want to have lots. I would want to adopt as well as give birth.
    7. Regarding Me - Must love all of me both good and bad.
    8. Trust - Must be trustworthy. I absolutely have to feel comfortable saying anything and knowing it is ket in the stictest of confidence. Also, if you say you're gonna do something then do it.
    9. A Sense of Humor - I love to laugh!!
    10. PLUR - Peace, Love, Unity, Respect.

    I am really having a hard time thinking of things to put down!!! Still trying to put this together. So far it's taken me most of the work day!!! No that that is a bad thing. LOL This was really fucking hard!! It literally took me all day to write. Some of it I got from other people who had been tagged cause it was so hard for me to think of stuff. To sum all of this up in one sentence... I just want someone to love me and be there to support me during good times and bad and look good while doing it. LOL I'm not tagging anyone cause whenever I do no one responds. Hope you enjoyed!!! Thanks!

March 8, 2006

  • Bisexuality

    How do you know if you are bisexual?

    I think that everyone is bisexual.

    Do you think a person has to have had a sexual encounter with both sexes in order to be considered bisexual?

    Shi actually had an even more interesting question regarding bisexuality. See here. I responded with this: "I don't think it's a greed thing. Its just about who you are attracted to. It only turns greedy when you are dating more than one person at a time and there are plenty of straight people who do that."

    I must say that I have been both physically and mentally attracted to members of both sex. With that said... I would definitely consider myself bisexual.

    Do you consider yourself bisexual?

March 7, 2006

  • Hair Cut

    Well... I got my hair cut a few weeks ago so here are some pics. They really show off how great a hairdresser I have, but they also reveal how much weight I need to lose. EEEk!!
    Well... I hope you all have a ton to talk about cause it is boring as hell here at work. I will be online all day long... hopefully reading your posts. LOL If not I'll be on Pogo. Have a wonderful day all!!!
    Please let me know what you think of my new do. Thanks!!

March 6, 2006


  • Your Values Profile


    Loyalty:

    You value loyalty a fair amount.

    You're loyal to your friends... to a point.

    But if they cross you, you will reconsider your loyalties.

    Staying true to others is important to you, but you also stay true to yourself.

    Honesty:

    You don't really value honesty.

    You do value getting your way, no matter what.

    And if a little lying is required to do that, no problem.

    A few white lies never hurt anyone (at least, that's what you tell yourself!)

    Generosity:

    You don't really value generosity.

    Your needs always come first, no matter what.

    And you'll possibly help someone else out...

    But only if it helps you in return.

    Humility:

    You value humility a fair amount.

    You tend to be an easy going, humble person.

    But occasionally your ego takes over.

    You have a slight competitive streak - and the need to be the best.

    Tolerance:

    You value tolerance highly.

    Not only do you enjoy the company of those very different from you...

    You do all that you can to seek it out interesting and unique friends.

    You think there are many truths in life, and you're open to many of them.

    Except for the Generosity part - I think that I can be extremely generous at times... this is so me. Wat do you think?

March 1, 2006

  • So Far So Good

    So far this year is going fairly well for me. Ok... not really, but lying usually works for me. LOL Can you believe that 2 months have already gone by?!?!?!?

    In other news: guitar lessons are moving along very nicely. I'm learning single notes and so far I've learned the first 3 strings. I actually think we're moving kinda fast, but my teacher thinks I'm progressing well. We'll see...

    Dance class is also going well. The last class for part 1 is this Saturday. Part 2 begins next weekend. I'm really excited to see what we're going to learn next. So far we have learned the walk step, the half turn, and the spin which are all part of ballroom. We have also learned the social which is just face-to-face dancing and then how to transition from the social into ballroom.

    That's it for now. Hope you all have a great hump day.

February 24, 2006

  • Please Comment

    How is it possible to be a comment whore when you hardly get any comments?? That's pretty fucking pitiful if you ask me. Story of my life. Please comment. Please comment on My Johari. Please. Please. Yes, I'm resorting to begging. What more do you want me to do. I comment as much as I can. I know my xanga isn't overly exciting or interesting, but couldn't you just return the favor just this once?!?!?!? Please.

February 22, 2006

February 21, 2006

  • Why?

    Why were we put on Earth?? What is the freaking point? Does anyone see a different point other than complete and total distruction?

  • How do I come across???

    I stole this from fallinghadandfast. Please check out My Johari. I'm really interested to see what others think of me.

    On another note... not much planned for his weekend. Just dance class tomorrow. I'll probably go see a movie. Here's a poll for ya...

    Which would you go see? Freedomland, Eight Below or Date Movie?


     


    EDIT: Didn't end up seeing anything. Just rented some vids. Next weekend we're taking my granny to see Madea's Family Reunion.

February 15, 2006

  • Update

    Belated Weekend Update

    Thursday - Went to an industry party at the Oak City Grille in Royal Oak and got free martinis. Out of the five only 2 were really good. I started with the peach bellini martini. LOL Yes it is as fun to say as it is to drink. Then I moved on to the Chocolate martini, Apple, Vixen(just another name for raspberry)

    Friday - Hung out with Jen and her friends. We went to Old Shillelagh in Greektown. What was really cool was seeing Julie an old friend I met during college. She was hangin with one of Jen's friends for his birthday. Really great times.

    Saturday - Slept in, then went to dance class. This was week 4. We learned a complete combination and then expanded on it. That was really cool, especially since I had a good partner. Later I gorged on pizza and took a nap.

    Sunday - Hung out with the grandparents for a while. That's always great. My granny cracks me up!!!!! So when I get to their house, I always ring the bell a million times really fast and then hide to the side of the door. Well this time when granny opens the door she jumps out and scares me! She really got me good. Of course my mom just shakes her head at us acting like we're 2. LOL Later I went to the Dirty Show. If you haven't heard of it, it's an erotic art show. Very graphic photographs and paintings. There were even some mosaics and sculptures. My favorite was the peep boxes with enhanced barbie and ken dolls in different sexual positions.

    I'm really trying to do lots of different things. Last night I had my first guitar lesson. I'll keep you posted on that. I just gotta keep diversified. Keep busy. Well... now that I've written a novel LOL. Enjoy! and have a good one.

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